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By Mary Ali and Anjum Ali for
III&E
Today people think that women are liberated in the West
and that the Women’s liberation movement began in the
20th century. Actually, the women’s liberation
movement was not begun by women but was revealed by God to a
man in the seventh century by the name of Muhammad (Peace be
upon him), who is known as the last Prophet of Islam. The
Qur’an and the Traditions of the Prophet (Hadith or Sunnah)
are the sources from which every Muslim woman derives her
rights and duties.
HUMAN RIGHTS
Islam,
fourteen centuries ago, made women equally accountable to God
in glorifying and worshipping Him – setting no limits on her
moral progress. Also, Islam established a woman’s equality in
her humanity with men, In the Qur’an, in the first verse of
the chapter entitled "Women", God says, "O mankind! Be
careful of your duty toward your Lord who created you from a
single soul and from it its mate and from them both have
spread abroad a multitude of men and women. Be careful of your
duty toward Allah in Whom you claim (your rights) of one
another, and towards the wombs (that bore you). Lo! Allah has
been a Watcher over you." (4:1)
Since men
and women both came from the same essence, they are equal in
their humanity. Women cannot be by nature evil (as some
religions believe) or then men would be evil, also. Similarly,
neither gender can be superior because it would be a
contradiction to equality.
CIVIL RIGHTS
In Islam, a
woman has the basic freedoms of choice and expression based on
recognition of her individual personality. First, she is free
to choose her religion. The Qur’an states: "There is no
compulsion in religion. Right has been made distinct from
error." (2:256)
Women are
encouraged in Islam to contribute their opinions and ideas.
There are many traditions of the Prophet(S) which
indicate women would pose questions directly to him and offer
their opinions concerning religion, economics and social
matters.
A Muslim
woman chooses her husband and keeps her name after marriage. A
Muslim woman’s testimony is valid in legal disputes. In fact,
where women are more familiar, their evidence is
conclusive.
SOCIAL RIGHTS
The
Prophet(S) said, "seeking knowledge is a mandate
for every Muslim (male and female)". This includes knowledge
of the Qur’an and the Hadith as well as other knowledge. Men
and women both have the capacity for learning and
understanding. Since it is also their obligation to promote
good behavior and condemn bad behavior in all spheres of life,
Muslim women must acquire the appropriate education to perform
this duty in accordance with their own natural talents and
interests.
While
bearing, raising and teaching of children, providing support
to her husband, and maintenance of a home are among the first
and very highly regarded roles for a woman, if she has the
skills to work outside the home for the good of the community,
she may do so as long as her family obligations are
met.
Islam
recognizes and fosters the natural differences between men and
women despite their equality. Some types of work are more
suitable for men and other types for women. This in no way
diminishes either’s efforts or benefits. God will reward both
sexes equally for the value of their work, through, it may not
necessarily be the same activity.
Concerning
motherhood, the Prophet(S) said, "Heaven lies under
the feet of mothers". This implies that the success of a
society can be traced to the mothers who raised it. The first
and greatest influence on a person comes from the sense of
security, affection, and training received from the mother.
Therefore, a woman having children must be educated and
conscientious in order to be a skillful
parent.
POLITICAL RIGHTS
A right
given to Muslim women by God 1400 years ago is the right to
vote. On any public matter, a woman may voice her opinion and
participate in politics. One example, as narrated in the
Qur’an (60:12), Muhammad(S) is told that when the
believing women come to him and swear their allegiance to
Islam, he must accept their oath. This established the right
of women to select their leader and publicly declare so.
Finally, Islam does not forbid a woman from holding important
positions in government. Abdurrahman Ibn Affan consulted many
women before he recommended Uthman Ibn Affan to be the
Caliph.
ECONOMIC RIGHTS
The Qur’an
states: "By the creation of the male and female; Verily,
(the ends) ye strive for are diverse."
(92:3-4)
In these
verses, God declares that He created men and women to be
different, with unique roles, functions and skills. As in
society, where there is a division of labor, so too in a
family, each member has different responsibilities. Generally,
Islam upholds that women are entrusted with the nurturing
role, and men, with the guardian role. Therefore, women are
given the right of financial support.
The Qur’an
an states: "Men are the maintainers of women because Allah
has made some of them to excel others and because they spend
of their wealth (for the support of women)."
(4:34)
This
guardianship and greater financial responsibility given to
men, requires that they provide women with not only monetary
support but also physical protection and kind respectful
treatment.
Muslim women
have the privilege to earn money, the right to own property,
to enter into legal contracts and to mange all of her assets
in any way she pleases. She can run her own business and no
one has any claim on her earnings, including her
husband.
The Qur’an
states: "And in no wise covet those things in which Allah
hath bestowed His gifts more freely on some of you than on
others; to men is allotted what they earn, and to women, what
they earn; but ask Allah of His bounty for Allah hath full
knowledge of all things." (4:32)
A woman
inherits from her relatives. The Qur’an states: "For men
there is a share in what parents and relatives leave, and for
women there is a share of what parents and relatives leave,
whether it be little or much - an ordained share."
(4:7)
RIGHTS OF A WIFE
The Qur’an
states: "And among His signs is that He created for you
mates from among yourselves that you may live in tranquility
with them, and He has put love and mercy between you; Verily,
in that are signs for people who reflect."
(30:21)
Marriage is
therefore not just a physical or emotional necessity but, in
fact, a sign from God! It is a relationship of mutual rights
and obligations based on divine guidance. God created men and
women with complimentary natures and, in the Qur’an, He laid
out a system of laws to support harmonious interaction between
the sexes.
"…They are
your garments and you are their
garments."
(2:187)
Clothing
provides physical protection and covers the beauty and faults
of the body. Likewise, a spouse is viewed this way. Each
protects the other and hides the faults and compliments the
characteristics of the spouse. To foster the love and security
that comes with marriage, Muslim wives have various rights.
The first of the wife’s rights is to receive mahr, a gift from
the husband, which is part of the marriage contract and
required for the legality of the marriage.
The second
right of a wife is maintenance. Despite any wealth she may
have, her husband is obligated to provide her with food,
shelter and clothing. He is not forced, however, to spend
beyond his capability and his wife is not entitled to make
unreasonable demands. The Qur’an states "Let the man of
means spend according to his means, and the man whose
resources are restricted, let him spend according to what
Allah has given him. Allah puts no burden on any person beyond
what He has given him." (65:7)
God tells us
men are guardians over women and are afforded the leadership
in the family. His responsibility for obeying God extends to
guiding his family to obey God at all
times.
A wife’s
rights also extend beyond material needs. She has the right to
kind treatment. The Prophet(S) said, "The most
perfect believers are the best in conduct. And the best of you
are those who are the best to their wives." God tells us He
created mates and put love, mercy and tranquility between
them.
Both men and
women have a need for companionship and sexual needs and
marriage is designed to fulfill those needs. For one spouse to
deny this satisfaction to the other, the temptation exists to
seek it elsewhere.
DUTIES OF WIFE
With rights
come responsibilities. Therefore, wives have certain
obligations to their husbands. The Qur’an states: "The good
women in the absence of their husbands guard their rights as
Allah has enjoined upon them to be
guarded."(4:34)
A wife is to
keep her husband’s secrets and protect their marital privacy.
Issues of intimacy of faults of his that would dishonor him,
are not to be shared by the wife, just as he is expected to
guard her honor.
A wife must
also guard her husband’s property. She must safeguard his home
and possessions, to the best of her ability, from theft or
damage. She should manage the household affairs wisely so as
to prevent loss or waste. She should not allow anyone to enter
the house whom her husband dislikes nor incur any expenses of
which her husband disapproves.
A Muslim
woman must cooperate and coordinate with her husband. There
cannot, however, be cooperation with a man who is disobedient
to God. She should not fulfill his requests if he wants her to
do something unlawful. A husband also should not take
advantage of his wife, but be considerate of her needs and
happiness.
CONCLUSION
The Qur’an
states: "And it becomes not a believing man or a believing
woman, when Allah and His Messenger, Muhammad (P)
have decided on an affair (for them), that they should (after
that) claim any say in their affair; and whoso is rebellious
to Allah and His Messenger, he verily goes astray in error
manifest," (33:36)
The Muslim
woman was given a role, duties and rights 1400 years ago that
most women do not enjoy today, even in the West. These are
from God and are designed to keep balance in society; what may
seem unjust or missing in one place is compensated for or
explained in another place. Islam is a complete way of
life.
Date:
2004/3/30 Section: Women The
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